Dear men You don't always need hours of rest to find relief. 1.

Outgrowing a room is its own kind of glow. The next door always opens easier.

Respect opens doors charm never could. Once it closes, no sweet talk finds the key.

Standards are attractive. Keeping them when she tests him is even more so.

Her secrets are a gift, not gossip. The man who keeps them gets to hear the rest.

Pretending gets exhausting to watch too. Give me the man who knows his flaws and smiles anyway.

Security can't be performed, that's exactly it. She feels the difference before he says a word.

Owning it is the start, fixing it is the flirt. She falls for the man who is visibly becoming better.

Curious, always. But I love a man who makes me pick a side.

1. Where do you see yourself living in five years? 2. What's a tradition you'd want to keep with someone? 3. What did you used to want that you don't anymore? If she pictures you in her answers, she's already planning.

Being seen feels scary until you notice who stays. The ones who like the real you were never going to love the edited version.

If you want to know if she sees a future with you, Ask her these 3 questions:

It follows him home too. A man who finished his day never brings the unfinished one to bed.

Soft and clear can live in the same sentence. She tells him what matters, then lets him surprise her with how he gets there.

Real edges, and he owns every one of them. That's the part she can't stop thinking about.

Selective is attractive. A man who's fine on his own is the one she wants to make an exception for.

Love this list. Number 4 works best when he never says it out loud.

Oh, there is a story there!

Bonus: when she shares something heavy, don't fix it right away. Ask "do you want advice, or do you want me on your side?" She'll remember you asked.

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5. She lets you see her before she's done up.