◍ • 𝓚𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒏’ 𝓘𝒕 — ♫

Witchy.xn--jm9e Seeing this a lot on my TL so I'm going to say something about this. This might be a long one. This is drama related, so I'm going to put a bunch of text here so you dont have to read it on the timeline, and you'll have to click 'read more' to see me run my mouth. Hopefully that comes off as considerate to my mutuals. If you don't wanna read all my blabber, here's the tl;dr. - This callout going around is a waste of everyone's time and energy. - This act of dogpiling on someone for having preferences or blocking people is juvenile. - Dogpiling someone because they blocked you insults actual callout posts. - People have their personal boundaries. Respect them or disengage. End of discussion. That works for all parties involved in anything whatsoever. Y'all need to start learning to communicate your feelings and have upfront, uncomfortable conversations about your boundaries in private instead of making a callout post on someone for "having insecurities about dupes and enforcing their own boundaries." The fact this is a callout post is frankly ridiculous. I'm going to go in assuming every word of the people i disagree with are 100% accurate in their tellings of their stories, but I'm NOT going to @ people or drag names because that is not productive to the conversation. I guarantee my post will make it to them one way or another bc the world of twitter thrives on gossip. I'll start with a simple principle: people are allowed to curate their space and set and enforce personal boundaries. Anyone not okay with those boundaries can choose to permanently disengage with the person. If someone doesn't want to ship with someone who interacts with dupes, that's 100% their right. You choose who you do and don't write with, and no one else controls that. Anyone trying to actively control that is committing a wrongdoing. At the same time, interpreting someone as controlling vs actually being controlling are completely different things. This can be set up with a very simple conversation: -- A: Hey, so I noticed you made these accounts as soon as I said i wanted to interact with certain muses. Is there something like, going on? -- B: Yeah I really want to write with you more and im okay writing multiple muses. -- A: Okay, that's great, but I really don't feel comfortable with that. It makes me feel like you want me to only write with you, and I want to branch out and interact with other writers. I don't know if this is intentional, but whatever it is, I'd like that to stop. If you can't, it might be best to go our separate ways. It is not your place to tell them if their insecurity, their personal feelings, are or are not allowed to be experienced. No one has the right to tell you you're not allowed to be uncomfortable either. It works both ways. If you're throwing stuff around like calling someone a manipulator, get your facts straight and make sure one, it actually is manipulation, and two, it's intentional. If you're going off 'vibes,' it's completely irresponsible to take your 'vibes' out to the timeline. If someone says "hey, look out for that person" IN PRIVATE, it usually means they want to confide an unpleasant experience they had. You need to clarify the nature of what things really are, because here is the honest-to-god truth. Everyone gossips. Usually it's in private, but it happens. Trying to stop gossip from happening is just a losing battle against society and internet culture, and you probably shouldn't throw stones in glass houses. You guys are throwing around this person's @'s like they're a fucking child predator. That is completely and utterly ridiculous. If you don't fw someone, then just don't fw them. If you wanna tell me how I'm wrong and bad actually, you can hit me up in DMs like an adult. A person can ruffle another person's feathers without being a cancellable piece of subhuman trash. Learn to find the grey areas, because life is full of greys. Save the callouts for the taboos, the pedophiles, the irl harassment, the illegal, and cut the high school crap. Y'all are old enough to have graduated college.