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Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear. NYC. ATL. $kathleenexantus

Joined April 2009
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My man came home with his “I Voted” sticker on.
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My mayor’s name is Andre, my Governor’s name is Keisha
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i saw a guy talking about how he “resigned from masculinity” and stopped pretending to like sports, drink black label, participate in one-night stands or pretend he didn’t want to dance or sing. i wonder how many men have been denying themselves ordinary forms of joy like this.
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BEEN. Photoshoots and reenactments.
Ok we are losing the plot of Halloween costumes lol
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Leaked pics non withstanding this is the most spectacular YoungHoe Run to ever do it. We had fun. We kicked it. We made money. We became a family woman on our own time. 10/10 no notes
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This is so cute. Men think so low of themselves. Keep it up, i love it!
When women be willing to give me a second chance I just take that as a sign that they don’t got no other niggas fr 😭
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Some of you are walking love letters without even realizing it. You brighten rooms, transform atmospheres, and inspire others simply by being yourselves. That’s truly a precious gift.
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Becoming a regular, getting to know the other regulars & cultivating those relationships is how you build community.
You’re supposed to become a regular at your favorite bar in the city. You know that right
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Another woman not wanting to be married doesn’t impact your life in anyway. Yall act like womanhood is a cult. I promise you’ll be okay if another woman doesn’t dream of the same things as you!
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Now I can definitely attest to being viewed as selfish and uncontrollable. Folks will look at you with suspicion because you have nobody to answer to or act right For. Not being a mom or a wife , it’s like “who keeps this bitch in line?”
I think childfree women get disrespect because we’re seen as selfish, wild, uncontrollable. Single mothers are disrespected because they’re seen as failures, damaged, inadequate. All of it is misogyny however when it comes to single mothers, its almost feels retaliatory.
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they come on here and show you every day why you must be mean and ignore men lol
When women be willing to give me a second chance I just take that as a sign that they don’t got no other niggas fr 😭
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Favorite bar, favorite restaurant, etc. etc. Too many people are obsessed with running down a checklist of their saved spots on TikTok/IG, instead of just finding places you really like and building history there, getting to know the people who work there and frequent there too
You’re supposed to become a regular at your favorite bar in the city. You know that right
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October has been beautiful, transformative, heartbreaking, fun, enlightening, a turning point… what a month it’s been.
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NEVER dating an only child ever again. only elder brothers they're always the sweetest even when they're bitches
my recommendations of men to date as an elder sister - 1. elder brother of a sister (caretaker) 2. younger brother of a sister (potential whore) 3. elder brother of a brother (responsible) 4. single child (litr child) 5. younger brother of a brother (kys this is the worst)
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Again, if you girls weren't so color-struck, you'd recognize that Monique is the beauty of Potomac.
MONIQUE POPPING BACK UP, LOOKING ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS, OMG! #RHOP
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I think relationships give ppl social credibility that single ppl have to establish individually. Being chosen is treated as evidence that you're desirable, stable, capable of commitment, etc. So ppl outsource their sense of adulthood to someone else's willingness to be with them
I think the fact that so many of our signs of maturity and adulthood revolving around relationships is why a lot of people get into relationships to begin with even if the relationship isn’t healthy for them be because they want to be seen as grownups.
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so freeing to not reduce yourself to a single occurrence — can’t hold anything against me, especially, once it’s been alchemized. yeah I experienced that, yeah I felt that, and I (re)turned it, tenfold.
I've been radically releasing myself from shame. Yeah that wasn't my best moment. Yeah that broke my heart. Yeah that was a rough time for me. Yeah that was embarrassing. Okay? So what?
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Not going to punish myself for opening myself for human connection again and having hope
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Understanding when something has absolutely nothing to do with me and not going into “fixer” mode is a sign of growth.
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This is what the people want to see now that’s how a real friend speak on you
Yung Miami speaks on the making of “Dear JT” from her new album WATCH DIS.
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