guuuuurrrlllllll, i'm glad you responded, i was thinking either relationships & friendships are challenging - which they can be in the world we live - or it's tewww private to discuss on here. 😆 i love that you felt safe enough w these 2, allowing access to your cave. knowing you can trust them is so important. for anyone else who might find it challenging to date/ make great friends in a world where you have to create a cave for yourselves, some tips below: 💋 caves is the 1st color of Human Design Environments. it's survival, it's Selective or Blending. safety/thriving for selectives: ✅v private ✅like having only one way to access you ✅enjoy ppl watching more than being watched ✅ back to the wall ✅ no spooking! safety/thriving for blendings: ✅ booked & busy w their chosen crew ✅ love being in a literal cave-like places ✅ enjoys being watched by their chosen audience ✅have control of the space ✅ no spooking! caves overall, need to create their environment at home, at work, and in romantic or platonic relationships. you need people who are direct and tell you how it is - ideally, you hate surprises. they’re something you can’t control, and they might make your body feel unsafe. when it comes to making friends or dating, you need to vet people, getting to know them on a deep, intimate level. you might lurv cuddling 😈 and safe sex is important, but you can be animalistic and freaky - just not with everyone. enjoy easy dates- whether at home or in a dimly lit, small, intimate space with your friends or lover. safety and comfort is key! you want a partner who pays attention to what turns you on and takes care of everything sometimes. simply put, you want to feel safe and comfortable with people. you’re not being paranoid - access to you is a process. take them through it and watch the relationship blossom or flop. either way, you’ll find your lover and/or tribe. kk that's it for now! digital hugs 💋🫂

hi! welcome 🚀 if you’re new here, i’m krystal!!! i’m a certified human design guide & reiki practitioner 1. i teach parents to embrace conscious parenting to raise balanced, aligned, & empowered children. 2. teach ppl how to use their energy for profit. 3. i practice distant healing on ppl who want energetic 4. certified yapper 😜

as much as i love my baby cousin, her constant questions can be exhausting. sometimes it feels like she’s a little machine gun of energy. nonstop! then i looked at her chart… 🫩 she has a defined throat center, so now i just let her lead the conversation with all her questions until she’s done. a child’s endless “why?” is often just their way of burning off energy.