To love is a decision, a commitment and a set of actions. It’s not magic You don’t fall in it You don’t fall out of it You commit to it and you do it. A healthy body, a healthy relationship, etc It’s simply a decision and committed action. Quit exercising and eating right, you get unhealthy Same applies to a relationship and the ‘feeling’ of love Btw, the husband can’t pursue health and keep the wife from getting fat. We all have to do our own work