"Hali yangu si shwari, muda wowote nadanja
Fanya uje na dakitari ten akibidi Waganga
na matafuta hodari kutoka mbinga na Tanga
wale nguli machachari wapiga ndere kwa Vanga"
The doc is question
Commitment is one very cruel thing honestly, if you decide as much as getting married you are setting yourself up for disappointments that could be avoided if you only sticked with sleeping around
Get married for companionship and not loyalty, human beings lack in that Field.
Let me point out some reality:
If you ask a woman out today, the good ones will use at least 3 months to block out all the men in her DM if she decides to be faithful to you. In those 3 months, expect her to sleep with them too and mind you that 3 months, you must be sweet to her or she keeps them as backup
If you get married to a woman today, she will use the last month before her wedding to sleep with all the men in her life before that was sponsoring her that made her not to ask you for money (what made you thought she was a good woman). This is for women that want to be faithful in marriage
The reality is women can’t let go of men in their life that is financially supporting them so your girlfriend or wife will keep talking and sleeping with other men who gives her money.
Ex boyfriends is not your biggest problem. You see her sneaky links and friends with benefit, some of them have been on for 10-15 years. She has gotten in and out of countless relationships but they exist still
Getting married to her won’t change that
