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Joined August 2019
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This boy just dey unlock new levels every 2 years. Odidi karate kid
Jaden Smith admits that just one night with 82-year-old Michèle Lamy changed so much about him, as he reveals he’s already falling in love with her. The two were spotted together once again, taking a romantic walk in Paris.
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The christians in the North wear the hijab regularly, most of them started wearing it during our world hijab day and they feel comfortable wearing it. If you say they use it to commit crimes, then you dont want to know wht some muslim women use it for then.
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The first time I saw a Christian wearing hijab,I knew she was a xtian cos she had mini skirt on but I didn't want to conclude,so I stepped back to view her very well, dt was when I saw d stamp of her church on d hijab. I wasn't angry nor did I feel anything bad,was just surprised
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Let me tell you people how Tinubu’s tenure will go. It’s so easy to predict. 1. In June, subsidy will be removed. This will trigger inflation never seen in Nigeria before. I see people refer to transportation costs (for humans), but it’s a lot more than that.
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I think it’s just poor education about it. Do you know how long it took for women to accept IUCD too? But continuous education about it made it easier for people to subscribe to it. There should be a major campaign to fit men into the conversation and how it is more safer than the female versions
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We all have different destinies, you can be 30 years old without a kobo to your name. Will you wait till you are 40 then? It is human nature to always have regrets no matter the choice we make, we always want more.
"If you're not up to 30 years old, you don't have any business with marriage" — Nigerian lady says
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APC is the only reason you’re working like a donkey with nothing to show for it. Your father was not more hardworking than you when he was your age. He had just one job and was able to pay his bills comfortably and save from it because he had a government that worked. You’re working 3 jobs and you can’t boast of a million naira in savings. He comfortably started a family and had children in his 20s but you’re 30+ unmarried and scared of the financial burden of having children. Please be wise, this government needs to go. Let’s vote them out.
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For the avoidance of doubt, boys should also take the HPV vaccine as even though they don’t have cervix(ces) they do have oropharynx (throat) - and anus/ rectum but that’s another conversation- which can be affected by HPV and in the long term, may lead to cancer
Words can't even express how I felt, when this "Nurse" in my church said boys should also take HPV vaccine to prevent "Cervical Cancer" Brooo I couldn't believe my ears, my mum corrected her, that men don't even have a "cervix"...... Tell me why this woman showed us......
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- I could barely keep anything down except ice cubes (in Nigeria, and NEPA wahala o) and I was admitted at least once (could be more, it’s a blur atp) 4. Malaria in pregnancy, take 1. I was 12weeks pregnant and I had to commit myself to another admission in my previous hospital-
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1. Bleeding at 7weeks. But I’m a habitual miscarriage-r atp so I went on progesterone from 7 - 28 weeks 2. We won’t get into the side effects of progesterone but suffice it to say, all those cute early pregnancy symptoms? Mine was on steroids. 3. Hyperemesis deserves mention-
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Why does the fight over "pregnancy is a death sentence" refuse to end? (2/2) Because the dead do not quote-tweet. Each survivor is a witness for the defence, and the women who did not make it cannot testify. A grandmother with every birth behind her is the defence's favourite witness. Any neighbour who died in her own second labour left no story to tell. Surviving is a lower bar than it sounds. Doctors have a name for the woman who nearly died but survived, the maternal near miss. Hospital studies in Nigeria have counted between two and ten of them for every woman who died. Not all of them heal. Some lose the womb. Across Nigerian teaching hospitals, emergency removal of the womb runs at around two to six in every thousand deliveries, most often to stop bleeding that would not stop. Others leave with a heart that failed late in pregnancy or soon after, a condition Nigeria records at the highest rate in the world, and not every heart recovers. In one Zaria hospital, half the women put on dialysis for kidney failure after childbirth were still dialysis-dependent at discharge and could not afford more. Rarer still, surgeons in Kano have reported a new mother who lost parts of both legs to gangrene. Each year about 12,000 women leave labour with a fistula, a hole between the birth canal and the bladder or rectum left by labour that went on too long, and leak urine or faeces until it is repaired. In one Sokoto study, more than half of the women with fistula also had foot drop, nerve damage from the same labour that leaves a foot dragging. As recently as 2017, repairs fell about 7,000 a year short of new cases. Every one of these women goes into the record as a woman who lived. The danger is unevenly shared. Just 172 local government areas, about one in five in the country, account for 55 per cent of maternal deaths. In Lagos, 86 per cent of births take place in a health facility. In Kebbi, fewer than one in ten do. A woman in Lagos and a woman in Kebbi are describing two different countries, and each is telling the truth about hers. Since 2000 the world has cut maternal deaths by 40 per cent. Nigeria's figures improved by 13 per cent. The federal government proposed about 4 per cent of this year's budget for health, against the 15 per cent Nigeria signed up to in 2001. That shortfall is one reason the hospital costs more than families have. Where is the other 11 per cent? I gave the word "sentence" one paragraph in part one. Every year the timeline gives it a week, and that week spares the government that question. Those gaps are the verdict, and the first defendant is the federal government. Years before any timeline fought over these words, a Nigerian state government vowed that pregnancy would no longer be a death sentence for its women. A government does not promise to end something that does not exist. The phrase was a confession before it was ever a tweet. 🐝🐆
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"Pregnancy is a death sentence for women in Nigeria." (1/2) Once a year somebody posts that line and the timeline burns for a week. Out come the stories of parents and grandparents who had six children, some eight, and lived. Then the statistics and the insults. Then silence until the next round. The stories are real, and they come from another generation. Women in urban Nigeria now average fewer than four children. The line is wrong by one word, and the word is "sentence". It convicts every pregnant woman in the country. Most women survive their pregnancies, but by UN estimates about one Nigerian birth in a hundred ends with the mother dead. What each pregnant woman carries is a risk, and no nation on earth buries more mothers. In 2023 an estimated 75,000 Nigerian women died from pregnancy and childbirth, about 29 per cent of all maternal deaths worldwide. In their 2017 estimates, WHO and its partner agencies put a Nigerian woman's lifetime risk at 1 in 21, against 1 in 5,400 in high-income countries. Over a lifetime, her risk is more than two hundred times higher. I spent almost ten hours in the room before my son arrived. It shook everything in me, and it looked like nothing I had ever seen. I was only the one watching. Our mothers knew before the data told them. In Yoruba homes, a prayer said over a woman in labour runs A ó gbọ́hùn ìyá, a ó gbọ́hùn ọmọ. We will hear the mother's voice, we will hear the child's. A prayer that asks for both to come through tells you what people fear. The fear shows in the habits too. Many women hide their bumps, skip parties and keep the pregnancy off social media until the baby arrives. Some fear that the more people know, the more evil can reach the pregnancy. Others would rather grieve quietly if the baby is lost. There are women who will not walk in the sun at a certain hour of the afternoon, and women who hook a safety pin to the underwear over the bump. One ties a mantle around her stomach, another anoints herself, and another takes holy communion for the pregnancy. Those are the ones I know, and other faiths and cultures bring more. Swap the faith or the culture and you get a different guard on the same fear. A people does not build habits like these around something safe. Medicine keeps its own list of guards, starting from the first test. Iron tablets, malaria prevention, tetanus injections. Blood pressure checked, blood sugar tested, scans booked, fruit pushed onto her plate. Almost every item exists because something can kill a mother or her baby. The latest national survey found that more than a third of women with a recent birth never saw a skilled provider during that pregnancy, and only about half made four antenatal visits. When the hospital costs more than families have, they fall back on what they can reach and afford. Poor women end up with the chemist, the unqualified hand, the prayer house or the traditional birth attendant, or give birth at home. The same survey found that more than half of Nigerian births happen outside a health facility. Among the poorest 20 per cent of households, the figure is more than eight in ten. The federal health ministry's own report says deaths recorded in health facilities fell from 904 in 2024 to 460 in 2025, and that progress deserves its credit. Now set 460 beside the 75,000 estimate. The years differ and the counting differs, yet the gap is more than a hundredfold. The 75,000 is modelled, so some of that gap may sit in the model. Not a hundredfold of it. Either most of these deaths happen outside the building, or the building is failing to count them.
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You told Nigerians we could no longer rely on borrowing. That was your excuse for removing fuel subsidy — to save money for development and to service our debts effectively. At one point, you even claimed Nigeria does not have a revenue problem. Yet today, you have borrowed more than all past presidents combined. They paid subsidy and did not plunge Nigeria into this level of debt. You removed subsidy, have borrowed even more in just three years, can't even fund your own budgets, and have nothing to show for it. To understand this kind of reform, one must be an idiot.
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We definitely live different realities in Nigeria, while CS is normalized in the North, the other side of the country sees it as forbidden. Whether CS or v delivery, a woman should be able to choose what's best for her.
I tried V-delivery for my first son, omoooo! 😭 The kind of pain I experienced, I wouldn’t wish it even on my enemy. They almost lost both me and the baby 💔 Fast-forward to my second delivery, I wanted an epidural or elective CS, but somehow, my mum and husband convinced me not to go for either and to try V-delivery again. Hmmmm, The rest is history. They eventually had to bring the baby out through CS 😂💔😂 When the doctor asked me who would sign the consent form, I told them I would sign it myself, and they gave it to me. It was after I had been prepared for the CS that they called my mum. That was when I remembered I hadn’t even informed my husband😭😂 P.S.: IT WAS AN EMERGENCY CS. If I ever try V-delivery again, make I turn into Tinubu supporter 🤭😂
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Sister Chidora claims El-Nino is coming and was wondering why a niqabi still wears Niqab in this heat. The Niqabi gave her a befitting response that suites Chidora and other islamophobes. Check what Eleha has for her and others like her in the video.
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Your mom se kini? Odindi 20-1😳😳😳
My mom had 19 children and spent the majority of her life trying to give us the best childhood possible! We got the whole crew back together to surprise her for her 60th birthday 🎉 Happy birthday, Mom! A caption can never describe just how much you mean to us all, but I pray this is your best year yet 🤍
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TO EVERY WOMAN REBUILDING HER LIFE, HEAR ME CLEARLY Yet again! Some people were comfortable when you were broken, struggling, crying behind closed doors and carrying responsibilities alone. But the moment you begin to heal, earn, educate yourself and regain your confidence, suddenly YOU BECOME A THREAT! A THREAT TO WHOM, EXACTLY? Since when did encouraging a woman to earn an honest living become rebellion? Since when did financial independence become disobedience? Since when did helping a divorced mother rebuild her life become an attack on men, marriage or Islam? STOP USING RELIGION AND CULTURE TO JUSTIFY THE OPPRESSION OF WOMEN! I am a proud Muslim woman. I believe in marriage, respect, responsibility and the justice Islam teaches. Our beloved Khadijah (RA) was a respected businesswoman. Her success did not diminish her faith or marriage. A WOMAN CAN BE RESPECTFUL WITHOUT BEING SILENCED, DEVOTED WITHOUT BEING EXPLOITED, AND STRONG WITHOUT BEING DISOBEDIENT! To every woman facing criticism as you rebuild, STAY RESOLUTE! STAY TRUE TO YOU AND YOUR COURSE, What will be will be eventually Pursue that education, Start that business, Earn your money, Raise your children with dignity, Refuse intimidation! And if they insult you , Give it back, Nobody has monopoly of Madness, They usually bank on your timidity and assumptions that you will let it slide. Ma gbe Iyalayae Sepe to ba gbe oshi wa so do mi You have survived battles your critics know absolutely nothing about. DO NOT SURRENDER YOUR FUTURE TO PEOPLE WHO NEVER HELPED YOU CARRY YOUR BURDENS! And to those attacking my advocacy, understand this, I WILL NOT STOP ENCOURAGING WOMEN TO HEAL, EARN, MAKE LOADS OF MONEY Meaningfully, REBUILD AND RISE! My advocacy is NOT against men. It is against abuse, neglect, exploitation and the normalisation of women's suffering! No award for who suffers the most in Marriage, May God protect me from poverty and lack, Don't force it on Me, I rebuke and reject it by God's grace A WOMAN'S FINANCIAL SECURITY IS NOT A THREAT TO MARRIAGE. HER DIGNITY IS NOT REBELLION! May Allah strengthen every woman rebuilding her life and bless the work of her hands. Ameen. 🤲🏽 YOUR REBUILDING SEASON DESERVES YOUR COMMITMENT, NOT YOUR APOLOGY OR TIMIDITY, PRAY THAT GOD PROTECT FROM EVIL OF HIS CREATION AS YOU REBUILD, May He protect you and I from Vultures in HUman Skin WE WILL HEAL, WE WILL RISE, WE WILL THRIVE AND EXCEL BY GOD'S GRACE💚 DIVORCED BUT NOT DEFEATED! And I Remain Proudly Coach Ibironke Fresh Chapters with Ibironke #DivorcedButNotDefeated #FreshChaptersWithIbironke #WomenEmpowerment
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Be a Submissive wife with common sense Be a submissive wife with your eyes wide open A difficult and abusive partner always leave a clue but we are always too in love to notice. Work on that I was a victim at some point too BUT the main difference was I didn't sit in the pity zone for longer than necessary and God bless my Parents for supporting me through the ordeal. Once it happens, No room for sentiments, wake up, Heal and FIGHT for you, You will let them win if you continue to stay in pity zone. Be Angry, Be Ruthless, Use that anger to Build yourself and ensure you WIN big with GOD. Leave the Kids with those who can help you and Go work as Hard and as Smart, Don't let anyone deceive You , You will need a lot of Money to get back on track My Kids were in Nija for 6 qnd Half solid years, I was doing 13 long days at a stretch, one day off and we go again! But Supplements and food Na water Sha and I was using my Gym at break time , 20minutes of rowing every single day. Yes it was Painfully Hard. I was coming to Nija every 3 to 4 months to see my Kids, Emotionally it was critical and I used anti depressants and therapy. The Kids were aged 5, 1 and 9months when I left them. You will cry , you will pray like Lunatic, You will work harder than most women around you BUT If you stay resolute you will Win with God . Divorce is not the End, Many women will make jest of You , will even call you a failure to your face and it might even be those in same religious and social circle, So you will weed out the bad ones and you will almost become Lonely! Guess what you can see through most fakes going forward if you pay attention. Finally You will Win with God and if you like punish your abuser, That's for you to decide, My Punishment for my ex was I remarried a Much younger man and sent Him the Pictures, Yes Why not! I am petty like that, I won't stop my life because one person choose not to see my worth. My last child will be 15 in January by Gods grace, He was a month old when we left, So time really do heal a lot if you give yourself the chance and believe it or Not HE is still single and unmarried 15 years later, but ofcourse Na Him Wahala be that. So remind yourself every time , I am very worthy , You are very worthy! Never allow anyone diminish you. NEVER So don't let anyone gaslight you at all. Go Heal, GO make money, lots of it, Pray every day as crazily as you can, Do counselling and therapy , its very useful, Use the anger and grief well and above all, NEVER Allow any loser that level of CONTROL over your life again. Life will never be fair for some , Get your fairness out of life, learn easy or Hard, its up to you. I wish us all well ultimately
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Now I have another incentive to keep Drumming in your ears to Have money for raining days as women, And that means you will work. Any Man that tries to stop you does not like you, Yes Read the room. If anything were to happen and to some it will, sometimes un annouced in Her case, Having money will soften the blow and cushion the effects, anyone telling you otherwise is basically deceiving you and you should pretty much stop glorifying Poverty and lack You will be getting a lot in return as a woman and You bounce back way easier and quicker. Actually not having money worsen the entire situation. Make money and manage it well. It will be stupidity on any woman's part to not have nothing saved for raining days That we cannot mitigate against for youn Not making money will actually make them suffers more, but what do I know. If you think being poor will get a better outcome, I can only laugh. You think If She had like £100000 in Her account today She won't buy another country citizenship and fight Him dirty in the same UK? My ex parents were Judges, trained in the UK, When I suspected Foul play in our Divorce process which I filed for by the way, I requested for judicial review and we were moved to the High court in the UK. Yes Holborn High court, My lawyer was someone over 30 years in the bar, You think that was cheap? I paid with my parents support. We were in court for nearly 18months, you actually think I could have run that without money? Lol 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣, I returned from the UK straight to my own house and 3 cars with all my shopping for my Kids from the UK, you think that was childs play. Without money your transition and bounce back will be much more difficult but hey Each to His or Her own Whether marriage works or not, You need money to give you options and ability to live well and fight Dirty if necessary. Even Babalawo, Pastor and Alfa that will support you with prayers gan ma gba Owo. You had better wake up and live in real world
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