I like saying Jesus Houseflipping Christ

also the experience of all your friends being boys & being okay when it’s just you and one of them, but if they play together suddenly you are the target for heaping quantities of misogyny that they use to bond with each other

6 years old & most of my friends were like “I want to play with boys now” & then I went and played by myself & tried not to cry

if the existence of self-driving cars makes you worry more ppl will opt for cars over bus or train, then you are acknowledging there is something cars have that buses and trains don’t. & that you want some ppl to *have* to take those limited options so *you* don’t

like if your anxiety abt self-driving cars is that it will put ppl who would otherwise not drive on the road, increasing traffic & the amt of cars, but you yourself do not take public transit, then you want a class of ppl restricted from car access to maintain -your- car use

the response people have to even the hypothetical of self-driving cars are always so weird esp when it’s coming from people who do not take public transportation anywhere. driving is such a class issue & lots of ppl need nondrivers to exist to maintain their class & it shows

I think csa survivors should be allowed to worm their way into the heads of many people and induce what twitter thinks is ‘moral ocd’ until they can’t look at their own reflection without wanting to vomit

Or I guess unless you’re willing to argue that feminists have unfairly maligned cys men when talking about sexual violence, but I’m seeing this argument from people who otherwise seem to understand the relationship between patriarchy and rape, so

This isn’t even about cocsa, this is literally people arguing that women “pass sexual trauma” to other children at an equal rate as men. You cannot say that unless you think that rape is something fundamentally different than raping a child.

People talk about csa as if it is completely and entirely separated from patriarchy & therefore rape in such a way that I am seeing people argue that sexual violence against children is committed equally by every gender bc it is a trauma you “pass on” to others

Lmao

new fitness goal

Lot of RJ stuff I've seen acts like the community has an equal need and stake in justice

I have to say that when I'm at the gym, I'm too busy paying attention to my own workout to even bother paying attention to what anyone else is wearing