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Just because someone’s your friend doesn’t mean you have to defend actions you know are wrong. There's a point where loyalty becomes enabling.
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skip cowok insecure. cowok insecure kl ketemj cewek mantep pasti punya ambisi buat “mengondisikan” si cewe supaya lebih inferior. kalo ga gitu mrk akan mikir untuk cari yg lebih bisa diatur2 kyk begini
After suamiku bilang "aku pernah kepikiran buat selingkuh, soalnya kamu pinter, orang pinter gak bisa diatur, punya pikiran sendiri."
Aku jawab santai sambil makan waktu itu "selama hampir 7 tahun nikah sama kamu, yang aku pikirin kalo pas kamu bikin aku kesel, terus kalo aku marah malah kamu silent treatment cuma pengen cerai aja sih. kayaknya enak sendiri aja sama anak-anak."
Reaksi suamiku "Sayang, aku minta maaf ya." sambil meluk.
Apaansih 🙂 kataku selanjutnya
Adrian retweeted
imo, sah-sah aja dengan syarat berlapis.
0. Ally
1. Gak heteronormatif
2. Research! Learn about queer community and queer media
3. It would be very great kalau author jg belajar soal SOGIESC
4. Ally
Kalau masih punya pikiran "kalau liat di RL asli jijik" then stop consuming.
Adrian retweeted
emang crab mentality satu negara mendarah daging. kalo gw sengsara, lo jg harus sengsara. gw nih yang paling senior, paling suhu, dari hal sengsara. gw bakal ngajarin lo gimana caranya sengsara dengan nikmat
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Kadang gue mikir society tuh kok obsesif banget ya sama romantic love. Sampe segala-galanya harus dikaitin sama romantic love. Puncak hidup adalah romantic love dan pernikahan. Orang yang gak obsesi sama romantic love dibilang "belom nemu aja".
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kembali ke agenda, tidak semua woman deserved to be supported. terutama emak² male centered. sumpah. mereka yg bikin partriarki things, mrk juga yg selalu menghajar anak perempuannya dan paling sayang sama anak laki²nya. male centered is real hell
Adrian retweeted
and i’d prefer “semuanya dipermasalahin” daripada nerima dan manut manut aja ke segala hal tanpa mikir kritis
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Kok I find the assumption that we will fall in love with opposite gender just because they're our 'type' itu very disturbing ya.. kesannya kayak what stopped this kind of relationship is simply because they're not our type, and not or own boundaries.
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Fetish orang Indonesia yang sering gw temuin:
- Masokisme
- Sadisme
- Stockholm syndrome
- Sange ama aparat
- Teriak "Indonesia baik2 saja" sambil digangbang aparat
- Dibilang "good boy" ama penguasa yang memanfaatkan mereka
- Didominasi aki2 kriminal dommy chubby daddy
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What people should understand is that it's impossible for a good person to not do anything bad. Who important is that you acknowledge it. So if you think you are a good person that's completely fine. Just make sure you judge yourself the same way as you do others.
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They judge themselves by their intent.If I am late that's because I was stuck in traffic but if someone is late that's because they don't have time sense.They are so busy defending the kind of person that they think they are that they don't even question their own actions(2/n)
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The worst person that you know probably thinks they are a good person and I'll tell you why. There is something called moral superiority that most people carry with them. The biggest problem with these people is that they judge everyone else around them by their actions. (1/n)
Adrian retweeted
If you are wondering as to why a lot of queer people don't want to fight alongside homophobics, etc., the answer seems very simple to me: They think that even when they win, they will end up getting persecuted in the end. What is the point of replacing one's government when they're going to end up arrested & discriminated in the end? You may argue that the price will be lower in the end, and all sorts of other benefits, but that is pointless for people whose existence isn't even recognized
Let me give you a simple analogy: Imagine you are a Chinese person, and you are told to ally with a person who says "Chinese people should be arrested and killed!!". You decide to ally with that person... And then you win. That person then proceeds to stab you anyway. What is the point of such victory from your perspective? It's a no-victory, and you're justified in worrying about it, unless if you're actually planning to stab first, which is difficult since you're not the majority
