Central European shitlord. Strength coach. Solution-focused therapist. Iron sharpens iron; so a man sharpens a friend’s character.
Warsaw, Poland
Joined September 2015
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Flat Lander retweeted
“Nathalia was PASSIONATE about flying!!! She was a 💯% natural born pilot!!!”
And now she and eight other human beings are quite naturally dead.
I'd rather celebrate the pilot who takes off, flies, and lands intact. But I guess that's just me.
Flat Lander retweeted
This is exactly the sickness I am talking about. Do you imagine this flight instructor talking about a male student in the same way, even if he was a gifted male student?
And because it's so disingenuous, it makes us question how full of shit he is. Like really? She was the best pilot you have ever taught in 40 years? Or did you have daddy/daughter syndrome and decide to pay a lot more attention to her?
And the sad thing is she could of been actually talented, though maybe in over her head for the position she was in at her age.
Flat Lander retweeted
It feels SO good to hit your wife with a totally nuclear emotional argument like this. Stops em fucking cold.
Flat Lander retweeted
It’s more common than you think!
>Man goes off to college
>Decides he wants an Asian gf
>"Hmm, some tattoos and weird piercings but that's ok
"Wait, some of her behaviors are off"
"Whoa, hold on - did you get an Asian gf or a steppe nomad gf?"
"What's the difference?"
Explain the difference to him with charts and graphs
"Oh no, she's a good girlfriend"
She's a steppe nomad
Flat Lander retweeted
One of the biggest problems in society today
On a primitive level, women don't want to be wives and mothers - they want a bunch of things that in the "Environment of Evolutionary Adaptedness" would *lead to* her being some man's wife
All the things that would lead to that *feel good* to her and so she'll keep doing them over and over for years until she actually has a conscious thought that this is not satisfying and so she'll change her approach
Since this isn't in line with what "feels natural" she will be resentful the entire time
Flat Lander retweeted
Sure, the man is "absolutely vile". But...
He is also single. And the women are married. They are cheating and he isn't
And there is one of him. And MANY of them
If married women weren't so open to cheating, he couldn't do what he is doing
No accountability for the women tho
I once spoke with an absolutely vile person who explained why he exclusively hit on married/taken women
He'd made a pass at me, I said I was taken, he said he knew, and I called him out and said "If you knew, why would you do that?"
"If I hit on single women, my competition is every guy in the world. If I hit on taken ones it's one guy."
Although this is one of the most toxic things I've ever heard, I do think it's worth internalizing, because you can make your partner compete against the entire world even if no one ever hits on you
That's what you're doing if you're constantly comparing them in your head to others, that's what porn does, that's what getting deep in the weeds with romance books does, and it's what the Call Her Daddy-style "You can do better" mindset teaches
And you know what? Maybe you actually CAN do better. Maybe both of you could!
You could both spend your entire lives treating people like baseball cards, trading them in over and over to optimize for some superior stat
But if you've committed to someone, specifically if you've vowed to "forsake all others," they are not your monkey branch to use to upgrade
Flat Lander retweeted
Why are men increasingly cautious about women?
I'm sure it has nothing to do with the fact that women abuse them, destroy their lives, and even kill their children with impunity in a culture that considers women perpetually innocent.
Flat Lander retweeted
Duke Lacrosse.
The Rolling Stone & "A Rape on Campus."
People are always willing to discuss these stories when it's the men's names being falsely dragged through the sewer, but as soon as their accuser turns out to be a dirty liar, suddenly it becomes her private business. 🙄
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Flat Lander retweeted
It's almost understandable that women would want to deflect on this one but the men who are avoiding talking about the woman by signaling how much they disapprove of the men are the worst
Flat Lander retweeted
IRL, underneath female rage is a woman who rudely demanded 47+ times and ignored everyone else's boundaries before having a toddleresque meltdown over still being told no because she thinks wanting something means she's entitled to make someone else provide it to her.
Flat Lander retweeted
"My girlfriend costs me thousands of dollars per month, But it's a great investment. She gives me aura and edits my tiktoks"
Notes to self that wish someone had told me.
- When a woman pulls away from you, that means she's not into it.
- Transactional means prostitution. Meaning. She's not there because of you but what you bring to the table. Which means you're the obstacle, not the source of value.
- Even if the exchange of goods is fair on the surface, eg. you share your lifestyle and she gets to be part of it, deep down she does not want to be a prostitute. The fact that the terms are fair adds to the insult. Therefore, resentment.
- You will be made pay for her resentment in ways that you're not prepared for. Emotionally, materially, etc.
- Every inch of value that you get from the transaction is now a weakness that will, eventually, be used against you.
She gives you social status? good, watch what happens when she takes it away and badmouths you to the tribe.
Her acceptance makes you feel sexually valid? awesome. Watch what rejection and a dead bedroom does to you.
- You're using this woman to find out what reality, and, love, is actually about. You will pay for your stupidity. That's the actual transaction happening. You think you're winning, you will be made, to lose.
- Enjoy the ride up. Let's catch up, later.
"This is pessimistic about female nature".
The opposite. The fact that she accumulates resentment and eventually seeks the destruction of the system that co-participated in her self betrayal, means she's still, good.
An actual prostitute would ride-or-die and fully sell out. But women, don't. They take the goods, then kill the abuser.
"But I'm not an abuser"
Then why do you need to pay for, it.
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Use this ancient knowledge as you will.
my girlfriend costs me thousands of dollars per month, but she's one of the best investments I've made in my business.
the dinners are expensive. the weekends are expensive. and she comes on every business trip i take.
but there's a few reasons she nets the business a positive ROI, regardless.
first, it only works with boundaries. when i have to work, i tell her i have to work, and she respects it. in fact, she supports it.
when i do not have to work, i just have to be fully with her. this makes me so much more efficient. work that used to take me hours now takes me minutes because she tells me to lock in and get my shit done.
a relationship becomes a problem the moment it starts slowing the business down, so we set the right dynamic on day one.
second, she handles the things i would never make time for. i ask her to plan company dinners, edit the occasional tiktok, all the fun stuff. it allows me to focus more on the most important things in the biz.
third, the halo effect is real. when you walk into a dinner or an event with a 10/10, your perceived status goes up before you say a word, and every conversation after that gets easier.
not to be corny. the halo effect is very real, though. it's much easier for someone to believe you're about it if you have a good looking woman by your side. "if you can't piff a woman, you can't piff a deal" is the classic saying.
but the last reason matters the most. building a company is stressful, and having someone i can find peace in makes the hard weeks easier. it feels good to have someone to provide for. i work harder because of her.
Flat Lander retweeted
Trapasaurus tells other woman they shouldn't be sexualising woman in sport, then does a photo shoot in a little short low cut dress trying to look all sexy.
Flat Lander retweeted
This is a direct admission by feminists that the laws they agitated for were intended to be used falsely, and they just want to make sure only women can use them that way, and only against men.
Right on the website of a feminist lobbying group stating they want to abolish gender neutral domestic violence protections because they might be used falsely against women.
Where's the equality, ladies?
I thought false accusations never happened?
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Flat Lander retweeted
Normal, because you are basically claiming that being a veteran makes you right/immune to criticism which is clearly stupid.
Ergo you are a retard.
Flat Lander retweeted
If a woman whoring herself out is ‘distinctly not antisocial,’ but the recording and publicizing of that same act is, then your definition of ‘antisocial’ is whatever injures the collective conceit and self-esteem of women. You are a frontline partisan of female egotism.
This case provides a fantastic example of the like between “gross” and illegal:
A woman getting drunk and having sex (consensually in the moment) with several men is not great, but it’s distinctly not antisocial on either side. I would say it’s very gross for everyone involved, but also there is no licit harm being done. There is also no way to criminalize this exchange without instituting some kind of ridiculous standard for sentencing that would also classify broad scores of other sexual encounters as illicit.
Sharing the video of this on the internet and harassing her and her family is obviously antisocial! It has no coherent purpose and there is no benefit to permitting it.
Flat Lander retweeted
> get introduced to someone new
> being told that they are high agency
> ask if they mean breaking the rules and soiling the commons or figure out a way to push the pareto and create positive sum
> she doesn't understand: "they're high agency sir"
> meet the person
> they're soiling the commons and externalizing internalities
